
Infidelity Recover and Affair Repair Therapy
Helping you work through the devastating effects of infidelity.
Complete devastation.
“I never imagined he would have ever done this. We talked about other people we knew who had affairs but how could this ever happen to us? What was he thinking? This has killed me. I am so devastated.”
Will this be the end of us? Is our family broken now? What about the kids?
“I can’t bare to think what the kids will say. My mom will be crushed. We have so much history, I can’t begin to imagine how to work through this. The pain is so real, I can’t stop crying.”
Paul Lucas, Marriage and Relationship Counsellor
I know it all feels too much. I know you are angry, hurt and shocked. I know it may seem impossible to repair right now.
How counselling guides you through the mess…
Infidelity can deeply fracture the foundation of any relationship, causing pain and mistrust. However, repair is possible with commitment and effort from both partners. Our approach focuses on open communication, understanding underlying issues, and rebuilding trust through proven strategies. By fostering a safe environment for dialogue, couples can navigate their emotions, uncover needs, and rekindle the connection that once brought them together. Healing takes time, but with dedicated support and guidance, couples can emerge stronger and more united than ever before.
Infidelity can be one of the most challenging experiences a couple may face, often leaving deep emotional wounds that require thoughtful and structured repair processes. Relational Life Therapy (RLT) and the Gottman Method offer complementary approaches to healing from infidelity, focusing on building trust, improving communication, and fostering emotional connection. RLT emphasizes the importance of understanding the relational dynamics that contributed to the infidelity, enabling both partners to explore their emotions and behaviors without assigning blame. By creating a safe space for vulnerability, partners can express their feelings and needs openly. Simultaneously, the Gottman Method introduces the concept of the "Sound Relationship House," which aids couples in constructing a solid foundation of trust and intimacy. Techniques such as shared rituals, appreciation exercises, and effective conflict resolution strategies help couples navigate the complexities of their relationship post-infidelity. Integrating these approaches encourages both partners to take responsibility for their roles in the relationship while also fostering forgiveness and reconnection. Through a structured process involving both couples therapy modalities, partners can untangle the emotions linked to infidelity, ultimately leading to a more resilient partnership rooted in understanding and renewed commitment. By employing these proven strategies, couples can work towards not only repairing the fracture caused by infidelity but also strengthening their bond moving forward.
Am I the right therapist for you?
I have worked with hundreds of couples through infidelity with amazing results. But I will only work with couples who are ready to get real, be fully onboard with taking responsibility and accountability and be willing to make drastic changes quickly.
If this describes you, I would love to help you through this.
By using the strategies and techniques in Relational Life Therapy our numbers are really, really good! In fact, most couples will find themselves healing and leaning towards their partner, and hopeful in creating a new relationship with them.
You can learn more about how Relational Life Therapy helps couples by watching this video.