Therapy When Life Sucks.

Helping couples repair their relationship so that they can experience love and connection.

“I checked his phone…

not because I was suspicious. It dinged, he was asleep, I checked. But what I saw absolutely shocked me. Was he having an affair? Who is this girl? What’s going on?”

“Yesterday was hell…

because all we did was fight. I swear, she just looks for trouble. She complains about everything I do and don’t do. It’s like there is nothing I can do that is right. I walk on egg shells in my own home!”

“We are roommates…

at least that’s what it feels like. I am lonely and feel so disconnected from him. He doesn’t show any interest in me, except when he wants to have sex, and then I am good enough. He doesn’t ask me questions about my day, we don’t talk about anything but the kids. We are so distant from each other, I am really starting to think that this just isn’t working for me anymore.”

I’m Paul.

I am a skilled and dedicated marriage counsellor based in Burlington, where I specialize in helping couples who are trying to mend their relationships after the painful experience of infidelity, poor communication and lack of emotional connection. My role is to guide you through this challenging and often overwhelming journey of healing. We will work together to uncover and explore new ways for you to communicate with each other. Our goal will be to foster a deeper connection that is not only refreshing but also lasting, creating a solid foundation for your relationship.

Imagine a scenario where arguments no longer escalate to the point where one of you is forced to sleep on the couch. Imagine no longer living like roommates. Think about the joy of having those moments when you feel genuinely heard and understood by your partner. Visualize the possibility of transforming what may seem like the darkest period in your marriage, the aftermath of discovering an affair, into a time of profound growth. This can be a period where you not only reconnect with each other but also strengthen your bond on a deeper, more meaningful level.

This transformative process is at the heart of what I do as a marriage counselor. I assist couples just like you who are looking to overcome obstacles and rebuild their relationships. Whether you are seeking marriage or couples counselling right here in Burlington or if you prefer to take advantage of online support from the comfort of your own home anywhere in Ontario, let’s get started!

Common reasons couples and individuals come for counselling.

  1. infidelity

  2. poor communication

  3. ongoing conflicts and arguing

  4. lack of communication

  5. living like roommates

  6. feeling distant and disconnected

  7. considering ending the relationship

  8. problems with the in-laws

  9. work-life stress and imbalance

  10. growing apart and difference in needs, wants and values

Burlington, Oakville, Hamilton Marriage, Couples and Relationship Counselling

For over 10 years I have been specializing in marriage, relationship and couples counselling in the Burlington, Hamilton and Oakville area. Since the pandemic of 2020, couples from all across Ontario have been booking virtual appointments. Our office in Burlington remains open for those wanting the traditional face to face help. So whether you are looking for in person, virtual, individual or couples counselling, reach out to me and tell me about your wishes for counselling.

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