Infidelity. Recover and Repair.
Helping you work through the devastating effects of infidelity.
Complete devastation.
“I never imagined he would have ever done this. We talked about other people we knew who had affairs but how could this ever happen to us? What was he thinking? This has killed me. I am so devastated.”
Will this be the end of us? Is our family broken now? What about the kids?
“I can’t bare to think what the kids will say. My mom will be crushed. We have so much history, I can’t begin to imagine how to work through this. The pain is so real, I can’t stop crying.”
Paul Lucas, Marriage and Relationship Counsellor
I know it all feels too much. I know you are angry, hurt and shocked. I know it may seem impossible to repair right now.
First of all…
I am glad you are here. I know it’s tough and there are thousands of places you would rather be then here, looking for counselling.
I am also glad you are here because I have worked with hundreds of couples who came to see me because they or their partner did the unthinkable. And through the process of therapy they were able to understand why, when and how. They were able to form a proper, lasting repair and able to rebuild a stronger relationship.
In most cases, having working hard and consistent through therapy, couples were able to stay together, repair the hurt and rebuild an even stronger relationship with their family intact.
How counselling guides you through the mess…
Infidelity can deeply fracture the foundation of any relationship, causing pain and mistrust. However, repair is possible with commitment and effort from both partners. Our approach focuses on open communication, understanding underlying issues, and rebuilding trust through proven strategies. By fostering a safe environment for dialogue, couples can navigate their emotions, uncover needs, and rekindle the connection that once brought them together. Healing takes time, but with dedicated support and guidance, couples can emerge stronger and more united than ever before.
Am I the right therapist for you?
I have worked with hundreds of couples through infidelity with amazing results. But I will only work with couples who are ready to get real, be fully onboard with taking responsibility and accountability and be willing to make drastic changes quickly.
If this describes you, I would love to help you through this.
By using the strategies and techniques in Relational Life Therapy our numbers are really, really good! In fact, most couples will find themselves healing and leaning towards their partner, and hopeful in creating a new relationship with them.
You can learn more about how Relational Life Therapy helps couples by watching this video.